Worried About Your Partner's Drinking? You Don't Have to Navigate This Alone.

Professional guidance for concerned spouses and partners — confidential, compassionate, and effective.

If You're Searching for This, the Problem Is Real

You've noticed the pattern. Maybe it's the extra drinks at dinner, the personality shift after a few glasses, or the promises to cut back that never last. You've been watching, worrying, and wondering what to do.

The fact that you're looking for help means your concern is valid. You don't need to wait for a crisis to take action — and you don't need to figure this out on your own.

Dr. Washton works with concerned family members regularly, providing guidance on how to approach the conversation and what steps to take next.

Common Mistakes to Avoid

Well-meaning partners often try approaches that backfire. Understanding what doesn't work is the first step toward what does.

Issuing ultimatums before you have a plan

Trying to control their drinking for them (counting drinks, hiding bottles)

Bringing it up when they've been drinking

Using labels like "alcoholic" — this usually triggers defensiveness

Waiting for things to get worse before acting

How Dr. Washton Helps Families

Individual Guidance for You

Learn how to approach the conversation effectively, set healthy boundaries, and take care of yourself in the process.

Intervention Coaching

If a direct conversation hasn't worked, Dr. Washton can guide you through a structured, compassionate approach to motivate your partner toward help.

Couples Sessions

When both partners are willing, joint sessions can address the drinking and its impact on the relationship together.

Ongoing Support

Whether your partner agrees to treatment or not, you'll have professional support for navigating the situation and protecting your own well-being.

What the First Step Looks Like

Dr. Arnold Washton — addiction psychologist

It starts with a brief, confidential phone conversation with Dr. Washton. You'll describe your situation, and he'll provide honest feedback on what he recommends — whether that's guidance for you alone, couples work, or a strategy to help your partner consider treatment.

There's no pressure and no obligation. Many partners find that simply talking to an expert brings tremendous relief and clarity.

Request a Confidential Consultation

All consultations are confidential. We typically respond within one business day.

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